Who am I?

That interpersonal communication lesson actually got me thinking.

Who am I?

I have been thinking of this question for quite long. But I’ve yet to come out with an answer. But when I presented, I drew a sunflower to represent me. The reasons are simple.

First, I love sunflowers.

Second, personally I feel that I’m very optimistic. Although I’m not very noisy infront of my friends or so, I guess I’m positive in my mindset. 😉

Third, the flower language of sunflower, is actually gratitude. I would like to show my gratitude to the world, spreading happiness to people around me, and if I can, to the whole world.

Actually true enough, I feel that we are all 2 faced people. We show different faces to different people. We show different attitudes to different people. Well, I guess there’s advantages and disadvantages.

So what are you?

Think about it. You might have an answer that will surprise yourself. 🙂

And also, I think we write our own stories in life. Everyone is an author. 😉

Quote: 

Keep your face to the sunshine and you cannot see the shadows. It’s what sunflowers do.

-Helen Keller

Bless you , JT.

Hope to see that smile of yours on your face again.

Wishes

When the clock ticks 11:11,
everyone knew this was the one.
We looked up to the sky,
praying there wasn’t any other sigh.
Standing up right,
there wasn’t going to be anymore fight.
We closed our eyes,
trying to make this moment mine.
Happiness was prayed,
pink health was wished.
As the time passes by,
it was as if everything was in a brand new light.
Now, the wishes hung up on the sky,
making this another starry night.
We stood there,
letting the breeze blow on our hair.
It was such a good feeling that everyone have,
and it have never left.
Since hopes are bright,
then let it shine throughout the night.

Another poem. Hope you like it. 😀

Quote:

” Our deepest wishes are whispers of our authentic selves.
We must learn to respect them.
We must learn to listen. ”

Sarah Ban Breathnach

A late letter,

I read this book, its in chinese. But the title of this book is A late letter, 一封迟来的信。 It pretty touches my heart and makes me feel really sad. I used to have a friendship problem in the past, which is pretty similar to this book. Misunderstandings caused a broken friendship. And what I thought it was so true is that I moved on like the girl in the story. But the only thing different is that, I approached them to ask why.

“You need to understand that there are some things that you can’t get or achieve although you have worked hard for. Especially the relationship between humans, other than working hard, sometimes, you require affinity. Including relationship, it is something you can’t forced.”

It was exactly the same way I felt. After explaining for a period of time, I grew tired and I stopped explaining.

“A friendship without trust, even with much explanation, nothing will change.”

“Learn to appreciate the people around you. There are still many true friends around you.”

“Let go of the past. The next time I see them, I will just give them my most beautiful smile.”

So true, so right. Until today, I can’t really remember what had happened in the past. Without trust in a friendship, that’s not even call a friendship.That day, I too felt we could hold each other’s hands and walk this road together.

“我以为我们可以永远牵着彼此的手，一直走下去。”

Well, then let this past go past. 🙂

But Ps: I saved the friendship in the end :’) Just sharing this, because I really love the words being said.

Quote:

“There comes a point in your life when you realize who really matters, who never did, and who always will.”

– Unknown

Thanks for reading.

And have a good day people!

What are words?

Decided to do another post tonight.

Just realised that words are really amazing.

“What are words
If you really don’t mean them when you say them?
What are words
If they’re only for good times, then they don’t?
When it’s love
Yeah, you say them out loud
Those words, they never go away
They live on, even when we’re gone”

But yet there are things words can’t explain or express what we want to say. For example, feelings. Some things maybe even if being said out, the other party might not believe. Or some things other people tend to regard it as nonsense and just ignore. Or even when some things when you knew exactly how you feel but you just don’t know how to use the words to express yourself. There are just no suitable words around.

However, in our lives, words play a very important role. Without words, there couldn’t been any communication around. Without words, no knowledge can be shared. Without words, life don’t seem to move on. Words like, “Thank you” , “I’m sorry” , “I love you”. without all these words, how are people going to get their feelings across the other party?

Wonderful words.

But never mis-use them. Words kill. They really do.
If you don’t have anything good to say, then don’t say.

If you really said some things that you don’t mean it, you will regret it for life.

So be wise when you talk, never do something you will regret.

Quote:

“Words of love, are works of love.”

Alger, William R.

Thanks xx

With society love,

First of all,

There’s a joke for all of you. It was posted in Lian He Wan Bao facebook. I shall just translate it for all of you. 🙂

I was pretty surprised by all the responses I got from twitter. HAHA. Okay, here goes.

It is a sunny day,the sun is shining brightly on her. So she decided to change place with her bf. but after awhile,the bus turned and changed direction. After that, she push her bf to another side again. So they are back to their original place. But after awhile, the bus turn again. And she push her bf to the other side again. Then her bf stood up and say,”I’m not sitting anymore. I’m not even a sunflower” .

HAHAHA. Okay, 1 out of 10 people think is not funny. oops. :p

Okiee. HAHA. Shall get to my topic today.
“Yes, ‘n’ how many ears must one man have

 Before he can hear people cry?

Yes, ‘n’ how many times can a man turn his head,

Pretending he just doesn’t see.

 The answer, my friend, is blowin’ in the wind,

 The answer is blowin’ in the wind. “

I kind of like these lyrics. It really made alot of sense. Sometimes what we see, or hear , might not be the truth. Sometimes, we just neglect the people around us. The answer is blowing in the wind. Sometimes, we see things but we just don’t bother to care.  Only wind knows. 😉 At times, I feel pretty sad that people just act as if they didn’t see things they saw. For example, the day before, I was in a bus. I gave my seat to an old uncle but when the uncle rejected it, and I wanted to ask him to sit again, a lady just sat down and played with her phone. I was pretty shocked I admit and I felt abit sad and disappointed. Why did she act like she didn’t know anything when she already saw that elderly needs the seat more than her?

Well, I do believe that that’s like one out of many cases that will happen because I do see people giving out seats still which is really heartwarming :’) I like it when I see society love in our society where everyone just spare a thought for the rest . That feeling is really great..

Quote:

“Happiness cannot come from without. It must come from within. It is not what we see and touch or that which others do for us which makes us happy; it is that which we think and feel and do, first for the other fellow and then for ourselves.”

Helen Keller

Thank you! 🙂

“We all have stories we want to tell”

Hihi, I’m back. No poems for today but well tonight, I want to talk about this topic about,” We all have stories we want to tell”, however there are things we just find it hard to say it out, even to people around you. Yesterday, after attending Interpersonal Communication Skills lesson, I found out what my teacher said was true.
” We all have that something we don’t want to let anyone know.”

Maybe that’s known as our privacy I guess. However, yet somehow , we will still use methods to let the other party know how we feel but we just do it in an indirect way. In our hearts, we do have that tinge of hope that the other party understands it. True friends , family understand it. No matter how bad it is, they understand you and encourage you to move on with life. They are the ones who accept who you really are.

Also, I think what my teacher said was so true. “We take time to know a person.” We can’t judge a person purely on a first impression. Time is always needed to let people understand deeper into another.
Recently, I have also noticed many friends around me facing friendship problems and so. But..  A friend is what we need. A listening ear is what we seek. Turn to your family or friends, talk to them, tell them your happy or sad stories. I’m sure they will be really happy to hear. Trust me, don’t bottle everything up. Is better to share with someone as the pain is split into half and the happiness is doubled.

Just to let you know, I’m always here if anyone needs a listening ear.

Have a nice day everyone 🙂

PS: I’m a good listener . xx

 Hard times don’t last forever but true friendships do…I ‘ll always be there for anything you need. 

-Unknown

Thank you 🙂

Sorrow of his tears,

Beneath the sorrow of his tears,

hid the secret he had kept for years.

After thinking for so long,

was he in the wrong?

Now memories keep flashing back,

as his tears run down like a broken tap.

The way he now thought,

was just like how he was taught.

A boy can’t cry,

just because of an insignificant lie.

What if he had made his one last fight,

for that one special night?

He had told her a lie,

that was where the secret lies.

Now seeing her with another guy,

he let out a long deep sigh.

Was there still a chance,

just like one last dance?

Then he shook his head,

when he realised everything is too late.

-CW

I wonder if people feel like that. Could be a girl’s or boy’s scenerio.

Hope you guys like it anyway 🙂

Thanks 😀

Smile all problems away,

As she looked up the dark sky,

she let out a long sigh.

Looking up at the stars twinkling ,

it was as if they were smiling.

Things were hard,

and it was driving her nuts.

At least it was what she thought,

this was how hard she fought.

Tears started to well up in her eyes,

those crying have never been so nice.

Those tears were a relief,

that people could not see.

After letting go,

she knew it was time to know.

Things aren’t that bad,

when it seems so mad.

When things are blue,

all she had to do,

was to smile

and continue the journey of thousand miles.

-CW

A poem I wrote 🙂

Smile all problems away.

Walking down this road,

In my life, there are many ups and downs. Been grateful for my life every single day. Ever since my operation, I have been thinking alot. To me, I realised each day is like a miracle. I’m so grateful to what I have today and the best, is this family. My family members are my pillars of support, regardless of what happen. Rain or shine, you know they are always there for you when you need them. My love for them will never fade and this gratitude I feel strongly in me, will never end. :’)
Glad to be in this world.

Thank you for this life.

“The most incredible thing about miracles is that they happen.” – G.K. Chesterton